For parents of children of all ages
Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves
Transforming parent-child relationships from reaction and struggle to freedom, power, and joy
A guide for parents who want conflict, discipline and their own reactions to become opportunities for awareness, connection and growth.
Who this book is for
This book is for parents of children of all ages who want an alternative to punishment, threats, scolding and approval-based control. It is especially relevant when the same struggles keep repeating and the parent wants to change both the immediate response and the relationship beneath it.
What you’ll learn
- How to notice the thoughts and emotions that drive parental reactions.
- How to listen for the valid experience beneath a child’s behavior.
- How clear leadership can exist without fear or punishment.
- How repair can restore connection after difficult moments.
- How the S.A.L.V.E. method can create space between trigger and response.
Book details
| Author | Naomi Aldort |
|---|---|
| Publisher | Book Publishers Network |
| First published | 2006 |
| Pages | 280 |
| ISBN-13 | 978-1887542326 |
| Formats | Paperback and Kindle |
| Translations | Published in 20 languages |
Praise for the book
“Her SALVE “formula” alone is worth the price of the book.”
“This book is about valuing our children for who they are, rather than for who we want them to be.”
“This book deserves to be widely read and not just by parents.”
Rated 4.5 out of 5 stars by more than 300 readers on Amazon (November 2026).
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